My luck with women

Throughout my life I have met women who would claim that I was too good to be true. I’m this, I’m that. But when it comes to going out with me, they hold back. As if they want to keep their options open? idk. Next thing you know, I’m on just a friend status while they end up with a boyfriend who they think is “sexy” but I’m the guy you always complain about him to. This has happened on more than one occasion. I don’t mind being just a friend, but sooner or later I feel hurt…